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It's holiday time around the world, and there are so many interesting cultural
traditions. As an exchange student, you'll be part of celebrations that may
be new, and you may not be sure what is expected of you. Here's some advice
to make participating in the fun more - well, fun!
Some holidays, like Christmas or Hanukah, have religious meaning. You may
not share the religious beliefs of your hosts, but it is still OK to be a
respectful observer. You might want to attend their religious service, but
not say any of the prayers. Find out from your hosts what is acceptable,
and what to wear also. Religious ceremonies can give you lots of insight
into a culture, and your questions can lead to interesting conversations with
your family and friends.
Often gift-giving is a part of holiday traditions. In that case, a small
gift for each member of your family is appropriate. Gifts that have come
from your native country are always a great idea - cooking spices or tools,
pottery, books, clothing, music CDs - anything not typical in your host
country would make an exciting and unusual gift. Of course you don't need to
spend a lot of money to give a nice present. How about cooking a special meal
of your native foods for the family? If you've taken a nice photograph of
you and your hosts, you could put it in a picture frame to give them. Maybe
you paint or draw and could give a special piece of your art as a gift. One
host mother of a Japanese student said, "Our exchange daughter knew I was
interested in sewing. She gave me a sashiko (Japanese quilting) craft kit.
I loved it!" You might also need a few inexpensive presents for school
friends you've made; watch to see what others do, or ask someone you're
comfortable with about it.
If you're traveling with your hosts to visit their other relatives, make sure
you ask about etiquette rules, what kind of clothing to bring, and whether
you're expected to exchange gifts with anyone else. A little communication
now will make you feel a lot more comfortable later! No matter what, your
hosts will appreciate your enthusiasm if you join in their holiday activities.
By Susan Ernenwein and Alice Hoover
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